27.06.2025

The patterns you resist will keep sabotaging and destroy your partnership with yourself

The patterns you resist will keep sabotaging and…

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You already know the pattern.

That’s the problem.

You’ve journaled it, processed it, cried through it, somatically unwound it.
You’ve talked to your coach, your therapist, your guides.

You’ve named the part. You’ve forgiven the part.

You’ve made space for it. Prayed over it. Cried for it.

But it’s still here.

It’s still running your business.
Still dripping into your pricing.
Still shaping your launch plans.
Still deciding which clients you “can’t afford” to fire.

And at this point?

It’s not about not knowing.
It’s about what you’re willing to allow now that you know.

Because here’s the truth no one wants to say:
Knowing the pattern and still obeying it will rot you faster than being unaware ever did.

The wound isn’t the problem.
It’s the preservation of the wound that becomes deadly.
The moment you see it, name it, and still run your business through it?

That’s when it turns on you.
That’s when shame starts to ferment.
That’s when self-trust quietly collapses.

You start doubting your intuition, not because it’s wrong but because your tolerance for self-betrayal has grown too high.

You intellectualize it.
Spiritualise it.
Make peace with it.
And meanwhile?

That pattern is making decisions faster than your healed self ever could.

You’re calling it alignment but it’s just adaptation.

I’ve shared part of the story with you here, but the real breakthroughs happen when we dive deeper.

If you’ve ever felt stuck or unsure of how to break the cycle, I’m breaking it all down in full over on Substack. I’m pulling back the curtain on the real reason you’re looping and how to finally break free.

The truth is, the gap between where you are now and where you want to be isn't as big as you think... but you won’t know how to bridge it until you step into this next level of awareness.

When you're ready to stop repeating the same patterns and start moving forward?

Click below 👇 to read the full post and join me for the next part of this journey.

📌Read the full post now on Substack here: https://open.substack.com/pub/achieversdilemma/p/the-patterns-you-resist-will-keep?r=3bm2fk&utm_campaign=post&utm_medium=web&showWelcomeOnShare=false
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I’m Ingrid, and I believe that the real magic in business isn’t about following cookie-cutter strategies, using trendy tools, or hustling yourself to burnout.

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